For some reason or another we postpone decisions. We know we have to make them but we postpone. "I know i need to do it but i don't feel like it". Don't postpone, it's the fear of failure. standing still equals going backwards. We want everyone to like us and accept us, thats not possible. Make a decision for your best intrest, you've got control. All you have to do is make a decision and start. Don't postpone, don't make excuses, just start.